If your spouse went back to the affair the second time, it seemed to have much more power over them than in the beginning.I have been faithful to my wife, however she filed for divorce a few weeks ago.One of the most common temptations people fall for when a relationship is ending is the desire to find a new love - Often these people have been unhappy and missing love, companionship and sex for a longtime, and so there's a real pent-up, unmet need for love.Since I counsel men and women before, during and after a relationship or marriage, including through a divorce, I frequently see people dating when separated.Since she filed for divorce, she has started dating another man.He stays with her late into the night on most occasions.
A recent dinner with a past acquaintance has brought me to a place where I now know a conversation on why-I-even-dressed-up-for-a-dinner-with-a-man-I-had-no-idea-was-married-until-we-were-well-into-dessert is very much needed.
I also believe we all deserve to feel we have the power of making a choice.
May I suggest that the DWM who approach those of us who are Dating While Single (DWS), try something as simple as honesty?
What I would like to propose are a few rules that maybe the more mature crowd—including the grown and sexy set—can adopt for future positive social interactions.
I am one who believes monogamy can be fulfilling and successful.